tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35326360847600569512024-03-13T11:18:07.503-07:00Joy is a flower that blooms when you domimi is cute LOL WTF I LAUGHAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-65607668037498107922017-04-03T13:10:00.001-07:002017-04-03T13:15:04.183-07:00ShiftedDear peeps, I have shifted my blog to <a href="http://www.tanboonmay.com/">www.tanboonmay.com</a>!<br />
See ya'll there!<br />
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xoxo.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-88730854170809112852016-08-18T13:09:00.001-07:002016-08-18T13:09:23.271-07:00Jiayou MaySo school has started. It's now end of week 2 sem 1 of my year 2 university life.<br />
Work has been really hectic because CA2 for my primary sch students are coming and prelims for my sec 4 students are around the corner as well.<br />
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So these two weeks I was just literally hovering around school and work everyday. (Right up from 8am class to 10pm end of work)<br />
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And I got to sleep for only around 4 hours everyday ...<br />
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Just two weeks of school felt like 2 months have passed :'(<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-52336490599619997372016-07-20T14:22:00.003-07:002016-07-22T10:57:22.206-07:003 months sem break coming to an end2.43a.m.<br />
Raining now. Intermittent lightning and thunders.<br />
Alone at my home just like usual but super have the feel to blog at this moment.<br />
Maybe because... <i>today marks the 1st year 8 month of sweetheart's death anniversary.</i><br />
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My last blog entry was on 18 April 2016... And today is already the 21st July 2016. So it has been more than 3 months since I last blogged.<br />
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So many things have happened during this span of 3 months and I don't know which to start writing about. And if I really were to sit down and write about my thoughts on all of what have happened... I think I can sit here all day and all night to do so... Haha!<br />
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Basically the more major events are:<br />
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<li>Krabi trip with sec sch friends</li>
<li>Organised birthday bash + housewarming at my house & it was a success =DDD</li>
<li>Erina's wedding + Tuesday suppers with Erina, Sihui and Qihang (some others sometimes)</li>
<li>Trisha's baby bash</li>
<li>Pretended to be the "mother" of my little sister and went for parent-meeting session</li>
<li>Gathered and brought my ex-students for a trip at Sentosa to have fun! =DDD</li>
<li>NUS union camp 2016</li>
<li>Joined NUS volunteering team (in charge of helping out orphanage in Cambodia this coming December)- bonding days, lesson planning meet-up(s), etc</li>
<li>Admitted to hospital for being allergic to alcohol(?)</li>
<li>Started teaching back some of my ex-students (Sophie, Kayvier etc) + started teaching Amaths for the first time (Junpeng!)</li>
<li>Registered for Class 2A practical lessons and passed practical lesson 1. Left with 2 more pracs to pass before I can go for TP! :)</li>
<li>Bought a ukelele and started ukelele lessons every monday (:</li>
<li>Started going to gym regularly again but California Fitness suddenly closed down >:( (I paid 2k cash upfront for my 2 years membership omg. I'm still left with 1 year membership!!!!!!)</li>
<li>Got to know several new biker friends =DDDD and I really like how brother they are hahah</li>
<li>Met up with primary sch friends to catch up on our lives (Alson, Carmen, Yeeting)</li>
<li>Met up with Joseph before he flies off for overseas working stint</li>
<li>Met up with JC girls to catch up (Cassandra and Xinting)</li>
<li>Started using snapchat every day and it seems to have become a part of my life now</li>
<li>Tuitions, tuitions, tuitions</li>
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<u>Some reflections on how I have spent these 3 months:</u><br />
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I'm glad that I have really utilised my sem break to do all the things I planned out to do =DD<br />
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Ukelele has always been something I want to learn.. and I finally kick-started this learning process! I still have a lot to improve though... and I will try my best to make out more time to become better at it :))<br />
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Here are some snippets of snapchat videos I saved!<br />
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I've also made many friends throughout this period. =D Whether or not they would become mere acquaintances or not.. I guess that's fine as long as we have enjoyed one another's companion during those times we spent together :))<br />
Also went out of my comfort zone to join events that involve group settings such as union camp, volunteering team for cambodia trip etc...and I think I am starting to get better in group settings. Slowly...but surely.. I have faith in this :')<br />
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I'm so so so so so happy to gather some of my ex-students to bring them to Sentosa!!!!!! They are still as cheeky as ever. Haha =DD<br />
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I remembered organising this blind-folding game at the beach whereby the catcher has to be blind-folded and use a stick-like item to catch the rest of the people. A boundary is set by 4 slippers at 4 corners.<br />
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This is Nicole hitting the air and I snapchatted this down :P<br />
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When it was my turn to be the catcher, my ex-students were so naughty and they ganged up to play a trick on me. I remembered trying my best to keep running around but I couldn't catch anyone, not even 1 person when the boundary was so small!!! When I took out my blindfold, I found out they went to take the 4 slippers and expanded the boundary until SO big!!!! No wonder I cannot catch them! Lol! Roar!!!<br />
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Still remembered those days when I first started teaching all of them.. I was taller than all of them! Now I am the shortest one already T_________T<br />
Really love and miss all of my ex-students so much. Am always wishing they are doing good in their respective schools and growing up well :')<br />
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I know that when school starts and I have to juggle with school and work, it would be very difficult to catch up with many of my dear friends even if I want to so I made sure I meet up with them in my sem break and I did it! Teehee =DDDD<br />
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Dinner with primary school friends<br />
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Catch up with Joseph<br />
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VOGUE~<br />
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Baby tyriel's first month baby bash~ XD<br />
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Secondary school friends~<br />
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As it is my sem break and I have more free time, I took up additional tuition sessions with some of my ex-students again for the time being since their parents requested.<br />
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One of them is Kayvier!<br />
Here is a short video of his cute response when I tried to give him clue for the answer. hahah.<br />
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To sum up my sem break... I feel this sem break is a really happening & fulfilling one for me. ^^<br />
<i>Thank you to all my old friends, close friends, new friends, students, ex-students, family members, whoever you are who made semester break such a meaningful one ((:</i><br />
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And it is approximately two more weeks to the start of a whole new semester of year 2 life in NUS.<br />
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Time to unfold a whole new chapter of my life (:<br />
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<i><span style="color: red;">Stay strong and live on for those who lost the privilege of life, for life itself is a gift. <3</span></i><br />
<i><span style="color: red;">Live, to the fullest, everyday.</span></i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-10162212180092719882016-04-18T10:30:00.001-07:002016-04-18T10:31:18.692-07:00Missing you1.25a.m.<br />
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Missing you badly sweetheart<br />
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You know, ever since you have been gone.<br />
I have been emulating certain aspects of your behaviour, i.e your caring ways...<br />
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I refer this as "continuing your legacy"<br />
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Sometimes when I'm doing these<br />
Part of me feel that you are living inside me<br />
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That is such a consoling feeling<br />
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But still, feelings of anguish still continue to overwhelm me from time to time....<br />
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*Wipe off tears and continue studying*<br />
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Time flies when things get busy. It felt like only 2 or 3 days have passed ever since I last blogged(?) but surprisingly it has been 2 weeks! :'(</div>
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For the past 1 week, my baby Honda PCX has been under maintenance at Mah ptd since it has reached 15k mileage already. And... I've been missing it so much! </div>
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Finally got to collect it back yesterday~</div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Oh yes! I've officially turned into a 1-year-old licensed rider in Singapore last month XD XD XD</b></span></div>
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My baby with its probation plate removed:</div>
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Doesn't it look so much sleeker and <i>non-nooby</i> now?! Hahahaha.</div>
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For those days when my bike was not with me ... Really gotta thank Zhengwei for fetching me to school by his car although he had to work. =DD</div>
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Interview was going so well until... the person asked about my weakness. </div>
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Really bad to have my finals coinciding with my students' mid-year examinations....</div>
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But as a tutor, I still have to stay committed and do what I need to do.</div>
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<i>I'm gonna JIAYOU and CHIONG TIL EVERYTHING IS OVER!!!!!</i></div>
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<i>YOU CAN DO IT MAY <3</i></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-77416042291682646612016-04-05T03:12:00.002-07:002016-04-05T03:18:40.471-07:00Not feeling wellVomited when I was riding my bike back home in expressway at 2 a.m. yesterday.<br />
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That feeling of vomiting yet I still couldn't stop riding because I was at the expressway - it totally sucks ... Never want to experience that again ...<br />
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I went over to my mum's place and she helped me to clean up the mess (all the vomit on my bike and on my clothings).<br />
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I thought I was okay already but today I vomited again after eating my lunch in school<br />
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Work in the day; Out with sis from evening to night :-)</div>
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Goofing around in the bus trip haha</div>
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Brought her to have some delicious waffle and iced chocolate shavings ~</div>
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Here are some of the loots I have gotten from "1-1 @ Bras Basah Complex". XD </div>
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My tutor commented that my assignment 2 deviated towards feature writing instead of focusing on news article writing... and that I have completely ignored Reuter's style (a set of norms/rules that journalists adhere to so as to standardize writing). </div>
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I realized I've always been blogging about school and other stuff... and rarely on my tuition job!</div>
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So today, I'll like to spend some time posting about certain interesting things that happened in my work. XD</div>
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Today, Lynn (parent of a child I am currently coaching) was happily telling me how her daughter has scored well in her composition and her teacher even wanted to photocopy her composition and share with everyone in the class... As she continued to rattle on how glad she was because Reanne's weakest component had always been Chinese composition... I suddenly interrupted and said: "That piece of composition... I did it with her during tuition!"</div>
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Her lit-up face suddenly toned down drastically and she screamed in a seemingly amused manner: "REANNE!!!!!! WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME TEACHER BOON MAY TAUGHT YOU ONE!!! GRRR! MAKE ME HAPPY FOR NOTHING!" </div>
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I also went to teach Jovan today. He is a mischievous, inquisitive and cute primary 4 boy whom I have been teaching for 1 year plus for now... I always laugh at him narrating his stories with lots of sound effects. He always like to ask very weird, you can say out-of-the-box yet hilarious questions... </div>
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<span style="color: red;">Jovan: Teacher Boon May, how do you know a person is a boy or girl?</span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">Jovan: But teacher! I have this Indian classmate who has long hair but he tells me he is a boy. </span></div>
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<span style="color: red;">Jovan: Teacher, you are wrong. Guys cannot aim when they pee one. Like me ah.... when I pee... "WOOOOOOO" the pee everywhere one!!!</span></div>
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I laughed and said: "I wouldn't say I have a gang, but I would say I have groups of friends! Jovan, gang is usually used to refer to a group of people who do bad things, really bad things, like hitting innocent people."</div>
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Was actually running late for my work but this song managed me capture my attention. Ended up, I stood there to listen to the entire song and was so satisfied with the song that I went up to contribute some money to the busker haha.</div>
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Well.. why I was so intrigued by this song was because... if you listened to the song, you would realise.. the lyrics are really depressing. And somewhat they relate to my life experience a lot.</div>
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That happy melody and the way the song is being sung... are a complete contrast to the depressive lyrics!</div>
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<i>"Just like the flowers, I'm growing wild" - this part of the lyrics seem to illustrate an implicit meaning together with the melody associated with positive connotations. This is the part I like the most haha.</i></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">As I was slowly passing </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">I stopped for just a little while </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">Alone a boy was standing </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">And when I asked him why, </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">And he began to cry. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">I'm nobody's child, </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">I'm nobody's child. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">I'm growing wild. </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;"> no mummy's kisses </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">And no daddy's smile. </span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgb(244 , 244 , 244); font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 24px;">Nobody wants me, </span><br />
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: , "arial" , sans-serif; line-height: 16px; text-align: left;">-Mimi accompanied me to eat at my favourite Xin Wang Cafe after work today! =DD (Our jolly "hello", remember? Hahaha!!)</span><br />
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: , "arial" , sans-serif; line-height: 16px; text-align: left;">-Rai agreed to lend me his DSLR so that Derrick and I can film a short video to try to apply for being a travel intern next Monday! =DD</span><br />
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: , "arial" , sans-serif; line-height: 16px; text-align: left;">-Next Friday is coming! And that means I get to meet my girls soon. Miss them so much</span><br />
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So therapeutic there.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-30669788704916290142016-03-23T05:28:00.001-07:002016-04-02T12:00:28.863-07:00Why we should speak up Last semester, one of my professors asked for feedback openly in class. Thinking that since she values feedback so much that she could ask in class, I gave an honest negative feedback in front of my classmates. To my horror, <b>she immediately snapped</b> and some people in the class even made sounds like "orh hor..." which kind of made the entire atmosphere even worse.<br />
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I went back, pondered about what exactly did I do wrong - was it misunderstanding? Did she interpret wrongly? Or did I just phrase my feedback too flagrantly?<br />
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Later on, I couldn't stand the feeling of leaving things hanging (since now we are in bad terms but we still need to see each other in tutorial classes). So I took the initiative to clear things up with her and offer my apologies.<br />
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During the period when I told my friends about this incident - I remembered very vividly some of my friends said, "Boon May. You need to learn to live in the reality. You should only bootlick the professor, never argue back and ask less questions so you won't annoy him/her so much."<br />
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What they had said struck me. Not because I feel that what they say were true and I should change the way I am to "adapt to the reality" but.. because what they say were strongly against my consonance.<br />
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Firstly, I don't bootlick, and have never booklicked anyone else in my life before. I think that it might be due to the some high ego in me that I never booklick others.. This can be a big disadvantage in my life.. I know that long ago - but I won't concede. Because I always feel If you can build good relationships with others through sincerity and goodwill, why do you have to booklick?<br />
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Secondly, if something is wrong, I will always speak up. Some people see this as "arguing back" but to me, there is a fine line of difference in these two.<br />
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Thirdly, I always believe if we don't know something, we should always ask questions. Or else we will not get anywhere. Even if after asking questions, we may not get the answers we want.. we may appear stupid.. <br />
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But the thing is, at least after asking questions maybe from person X and person X couldn't give the answers we want.. we would now know that we have to find other ways to get answers.<br />
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It means we are taking a leap forward and becoming clearer to where we should get our answers, isn't it?<br />
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This brings me to the point I want to talk about today - Asking questions.<br />
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This semester, I met the toughest, most sarcastic and most unhelpful professor I have ever met in my life.<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #cc0000;">Every question I posed to her was rebounded back with sarcastic or harsh comments.</span></i></b><br />
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It is no wonder nobody has asked her questions during and after class <b>except me</b> all the times.<br />
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While I have to admit, sometimes I do ask questions out of convenience.. But most of the times, my questions are really legit.<br />
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I remembered doing something really meticulously and wholeheartedly.. spent the entire day and came up with something to show her and asked if what I have done are alright. and I got the harshest reply from her in something like this: <b>"I won't entertain things like this. Why are you spending so much time doing some thing that will waste your and my precious time? Please make use of your time wisely."</b><br />
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First, my heart sank. And then later, I got angry. I felt like... all my efforts have gone to waste. Instead of providing me constructive feedback, why did the professor have to sound so mean? My dislike for this teacher started to build up.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><i><br /></i><i>I started to doubt myself - Am I really wrong in asking questions? Because every time I ask a question, all I get back from her is a harsh or sarcastic remark and it felt like I got slapped in the face every time and it hurts.</i></span></h3>
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Until today.<br />
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We were supposed to have a make-up class at 2 p.m. today. Having been released from my second tutorial early, I decided to go for the make-up class half-and-hour early.<br />
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To my dismay, I found out that this professor I dislike also went early.<br />
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"Should I just leave and come back at 2pm?" this question sprang into my mind.<br />
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"No, let's just have a talk to her and see how it goes," I thought.<br />
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And so..<br />
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I greeted her, sat beside her and we chatted for 30 minutes.<br />
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To my surprise... her demeanor when she talked to me 1-1 was so different from how she was usually like in class - that angsty and sarcastic tutor whom perpetually seems to have this "come near me and you will get it from me." that kind of aura.<br />
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When she spoke to me 1-1, she was cheery - all smiles and courteous.<br />
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Somehow, she knew that I was working and studying at the same time (which I don't know how come she knew) and asked how I was coping with my studies.<br />
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I replied, "Average" and what she replied me was something I have never expected coming from a professor...<br />
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"Coming from my experience, results are really nothing. Really.<br />
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"Remember the two things that you would always need: First, you must be able to accept feedback.. feedback from anyone, your boss, your colleague, your partner, whoever. Second, you must be thickskinned. Very thickskinned.<br />
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"And you know what Boon May? From my classes I have with you... the way you dare to ask questions... I can see you are a very strong girl. And I'm sure this will bring you a long way ahead even after you graduate from university. Believe me."<br />
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I was speechless when I heard her saying that.<br />
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My impression of her took a reverse turn drastically.<br />
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From what she said about "must be able to accept feedback", a sudden realisation came to me -<br />
So all along... she was being mean for this reason!<br />
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She wanted to train her students to be able to take criticisms and be more resourceful.<br />
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And.. all along, I felt like I appeared stupid in her eyes because of her harsh comments.<br />
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Yet I was so wrong. <br />
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Contrary to that negative and silly interpretation of my side, I appeared to be "strong" to her for daring to ask questions.<br />
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So... this brings to the conclusion and the morale of why I want to share this experience of mine..<br />
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Sometimes... why we choose to be passive - because being passive is within our comfort zone. We don't get hurt, don't appear silly and in fact, we appear like we know everything.<br />
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But actually, we have a lot of things we do not know. But that's okay -<br />
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And it's okay to appear silly to ask questions even if these silly questions might hurt us. Because we learn. We learn to ask better questions. We learn that if we can't get answers from asking questions from a particular someone, we can always be resourceful and get our answers elsewhere than to be stuck at the same stage. And most importantly, we learn to accept negative feedback so that they won't hurt us anymore.<br />
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Because ultimately.. I strongly believe we will become the clever one emerging from all those people around us who think we appeared silly.<br />
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Ending off with this quote that I concur with =)<br />
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Going for work soon.<br />
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Have to interview communication manager from AWARE after work.<br />
Gonna finish up my infographic by tonight.<br />
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2 more days to my official 1st year of being a licensed rider in Singapore.<br />
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Need to settle the renewal of insurance and road tax tomorrow~<br />
Still can't find any documents regarding my motor insurance T_T<br />
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Been <i>so busy</i><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-31466754006818078442016-03-13T10:12:00.000-07:002016-03-13T10:12:09.070-07:00Diligently living my life<u>Guest speech on 10 March 2015:</u><br />
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A picture taken with my Responder Critique, Simon and my tutor, Miss Cardoza! :-)<br />
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Dinner with Xin ting at Breko's Cafe :)<br />
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I'm so honored and happy to be given the chance to speak as a guest in one of the GEM2027/GET1008 lecture! Still can't believe I did it anyway =DDDDDD<br />
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Not sure if anyone heard of this saying before, but one of the greatest fears for people is actually public speaking!<br />
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For myself personally... I used to be such a timid girl back then in primary school who don't even dare to raise up my hands and ask if I could go to the toilet....<br />
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10 plus years later... I actually gave a guest speech to 150++ people which to me... is such a great achievement. T____T<br />
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I'm so so thankful for everything and for everyone who supported me.<br />
Will never forget this <3<br />
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Single Parent's Day on 12 March 2016<br />
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Went down for Single Parent's Day event and listened to some of the speakers who talked about their stories.. Can't help but to go to one of them and hugged her! Rai captured the image of us talking to each other after the hug haha ^<br />
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Volunteered for ChariTeach photoshop and spent my day (9am-5pm) learning the various techniques in Photoshop~~ =D<br />
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HAPPY NEWS: Received an e-mail informing me that I have gotten accepted for being part of a volunteering event in NUS! The happier news is that Sheryl would be joining me for this XD<br />
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Met up with yiqun to study yesterday. But other than studying, we played bball, played stress, watched less than half a movie, and eat. It was quite fun haha. He is such a noob at playing stress but somehow he can always find the chance to "stress" me and make me lose. Lol!<br />
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Went to work today - Natalie's and Celine's tuition.<br />
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Celine and her family is going to move to Shanghai soon T___T gonna miss them. They are such lovelies.<br />
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We had lots of fun eating the fried chicken, potato wedges and maggi and talking to one another as well as playing "stress" and "in between."</div>
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It was so funny - the way the game was like. I'm basically the one who always throw in all my money and say "ALL IN" and either win a lot or lose a lot. </div>
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Cheryl is the one who would be like, "20cent only" "20cent only k" hahahaha, as usual her pattern :p</div>
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Thanks to a friend who helped me to reduce the word count and edited it together - doing the news story doesn't feel stressful at all. In fact it was quite fun hahaha.<br />
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SAY HELLO TO RECESS WEEK! =DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-76091197092986011962016-02-17T13:01:00.004-08:002016-02-17T13:26:15.861-08:00Time and context change everythingI'm sure many people heard that cliche saying before, "Time heals everything."<br />
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<span style="color: #191919;">Sometimes, </span><span style="color: #c27ba0;">we may actively work to forget memories, especially those of traumatic or disturbing events or experiences.</span><span style="color: #191919;"> The two basic forms of </span><span style="background-position: 0px 0px; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #191919; font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">motivated forgetting</span><span style="color: #191919;"> are: suppression, a conscious form of forgetting, and repression, an unconscious form of forgetting.</span><br />
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I kept telling myself, "<b>I need to sleep early, I need to sleep early, I need to wake up at 6a.m. Do not study. Do not do anything else. Need to wake up at 6 a.m. tomorrow. Sleep early. Sleep now</b>."<br />
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Went to work today and came back to finish up some assignments and did studying til now.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-83680586191266007492016-02-13T11:21:00.002-08:002016-02-15T11:36:27.081-08:00NUS ODAC cycling eventThis morning I got woken up by my little bro claiming that he was hungry.<br />
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Had a close shave with death today because of two reckless drivers...<br />
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<i>我好累。</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-31259818571994280772016-02-06T10:45:00.001-08:002016-02-06T10:51:21.620-08:00Could it happen? Can I sustain in doing well in my studies<br />
Continue working<br />
Join a CCA<br />
Be healthy<br />
Eat well<br />
Sleep well<br />
Exercise regularly<br />
Have time with family<br />
Have time with friends<br />
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No matter how I think and how I try to plan out, it seems impossible :(<br />
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<i>CL2280's lectures/tutorial isn't really helping me to gain any knowledge about translation.</i><br />
<i>Most of the things I'm learning are through my self-study by finding my own resources.</i><br />
<i>I'm really disappointed in this module. </i><br />
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<i>Tutor in NM2220 is really strict. Many of the questions I asked her were rebutted with the same answer - "Find the answers yourself." And then I'd be spending hours away thinking of solutions. Mostly empty solutions. Her tutorials are fast-paced and straight-to-business. It's a steep learning curve going for her lessons. But I'm struggling with my assignment with a whole list of questions I am supposed to find "solutions" myself!!! :(</i><br />
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<i>I gave up going for PL1101e lectures since the 2 hours really can be better spent studying the textbook.</i><br />
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<i>GER1000 so far is very interesting to me. I like what I'm learning there and I like to think about how to apply those things that are learnt. Lots of math/technical stuff - something that is lacking in my modules since all my modules are mostly "language" related.</i><br />
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<i>Enjoying NM2101 so far. Tutorials are a breeze since not much preparations are needed in advance but i still try to prepare before going. </i><br />
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Discovered a gem place near my house - <b>24H HANS</b>!!!!!!! <span style="color: red;">My love <3</span><br />
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Gonna be camping there frequently to study :P<br />
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CNY break is a great time to catch up with all the studying I have been missing out due to work commitments -<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04356954375528820355noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3532636084760056951.post-5839251938595563092016-02-05T07:21:00.000-08:002016-02-05T07:23:10.728-08:00忍得住寂寞与清贫学校是知识的殿堂, 是一座象牙塔, 虽然赏心悦目, <span style="color: orange;">却要忍得住<span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>寂寞</b>与<b>清贫</b></span></span>。 还有一个现实的问题。。。<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;"><b>钱</b></span>,<br />
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